Are You Truly Ready for Union With Your Twin Flame?
By Lorraine Vesterink
As a Divine Feminine, you may think you’ve done everything in your power and are now ready for union.
Perhaps you’re completely done with the waiting.
But how do you know if you really are ready?
You’re ready only if you and your twin flame are on the same page about your relationship.
If not—then you’re not ready (yet).
Your Twin Soul Will Always Mirror You
You and your twin soul are one.
So when you’re truly ready, your twin will mirror this directly back to you.
Sometimes your twin soul reappears in your life—to check if you’re ready.
If not, they walk away again for a while… but they always come back.
That’s a defining trait of the twin soul connection.
So why not make sure your twin flame comes and stays?
That’s exactly what Twin Soul School is here for:
To help you be ready for a happy, healthy, lasting relationship with your twin flame.
10 Things to Do If You Think You’re Ready
If you feel like you’ve done everything but your twin flame hasn’t chosen you yet…
You may be asking yourself questions like:
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Am I dealing with a karmic twin?
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What am I doing wrong?
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When will my twin soul come back?
If so, you’re not alone. I asked myself these questions too.
I had done so much work:
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Healed my past (using my Heal Your Past method)
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Developed deep self-love (and even wrote a book about it!)
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Created a theater show on self-love
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Let go of my urge to reach out
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Learned deeply about the twin flame connection
Still… I kept asking:
“Why doesn’t my twin flame choose me?”
That was the problem. That question became my affirmation.
Our repeated thoughts become our reality.
“I know you love me… but why don’t you choose me?”
That was my affirmation. And my twin flame mirrored it perfectly.
Just like many Divine Masculines do when they say:
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I’m already in a relationship
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I want to focus on work / sports / kids
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I want to keep my freedom
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You deserve someone better
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We’re too different
“If Your Twin Flame Isn’t Ready… You’re Not Ready Yet Either”
— Lorraine Vesterink
You and your twin flame are one.
There is no separation—even when it feels like there is.
If your twin flame isn’t ready, it simply means you’re not ready yet either.
The good news is… you can do something about that.
Here are 10 things to focus on right now:
✅ 10 Ways to Get Ready for Union
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Heal your past and release old stories
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Develop self-love and unconditional love
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Learn more about the twin flame connection
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Commit to your personal growth and self-improvement
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Improve communication – can you express and listen deeply, even on a soul level?
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Show commitment – are you truly ready for a long-term union and its challenges?
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Create shared goals and values – what can you enjoy doing together right now?
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Be emotionally and mentally available – is your heart truly open?
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Be stable – are you prepared for the ups and downs of real relationship growth?
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Raise your awareness – are you conscious of your emotional state and mindset?
The Final Piece: Becoming a Master Manifestor
The final piece for many is awareness.
In my case, even though I had manifested amazing things in life…
This was the missing link.
When I discovered HappyWriting, I manifested my twin flame back in 2019.
It took only four months—from no contact to union.
What Is HappyWriting?
It’s a manifestation tool, just like affirmations.
It means writing down your affirmations out of gratitude—as if your dream is already true.
“I am so happy and grateful that we are going on a trip together.”
Now reflect:
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How does this feel in your body?
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What thoughts come to mind?
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What do you feel on a soul level when you write this down?
Bonus Affirmations for You:
🦩 “My twin flame wants to see me.”
🦩 “He/she wants to be in a relationship with me.”
🦩 “My twin flame wants to share his/her life with me.”
If that’s too much right now, just start small:
♡ Contact
♡ Relationship
♡ Sharing our lives together
Or:
🦩 “I love the thought of being together with my twin flame.”
🦩 “I am open to receive my union.”
🦩 “I deserve my twin flame union.”
“The relationship with your twin flame should NOT be the basis of your happiness,
but the bonus in your wonderful life.”
— Lorraine Vesterink
Ultimately, you are the one who decides if you’re ready for your twin flame union.
And once you are… your twin flame will reflect that readiness right back to you.
If you’d like to go deeper:
🎥 Watch the full live session here »
Sending you love,
Lorraine Vesterink
