Do you know that feeling?
You want it so badly.
That love.
That income.
That house.
That body.
That one thing where you think: if I just had that… I’d finally be happy.
And yet — the harder you want it, the further it seems to slip away.
As if the universe is playing games.
You feel like you’re stuck in a spiral where desperate energy blocks everything.
Frustrating, right?
I used to think:
“The more I want something, the faster it should come to me.”
But I was wrong.
Because here’s the truth — and it may not be what you want to hear:
Desire keeps you small.
Desire creates distance.
Because desire says: I don’t have it yet.
And that’s exactly where the problem lies.
You’re blocking what you truly want — by clinging to it too tightly.
Take a moment and really feel into that.
What does wanting feel like?
Uneasy.
Frustrating.
Sometimes suffocating.
For me, it used to feel like I was stuck in the waiting room of my own life.
And here’s the thing:
People who already have it — whether it’s love, abundance or joy —
they don’t want it with that same tension.
They know it’s coming.
Or better yet: they feel it’s already here.
The harder you want it, the more you radiate that it’s missing.
And that’s not just a nice sentence.
That’s an energetic law.
→ If your desire is at 100%, you block 100% of the space needed to receive it.
→ At 70%, you leave 30% open.
→ At 0% — when you’re neutral, trusting — that’s when flow begins.
Not because you gave up.
Not because you’re settling for Plan B.
But because you’re embodying what you desire.
Because you know: it’s already yours.
So how do you shift that?
You stop wanting it.
You start claiming it.
You move from certainty, not craving.
That means:
Acting like it’s already yours
Thinking from abundance
Letting go without giving up
And yes — that’s hard as hell.
Because it means turning your desire into trust.
Not: “I hope it works.”
But: “It’s already on its way. I just have to receive it.”
And no, this isn’t a magical trick.
I don’t do tricks.
I do soul work.
What does work?
→ Inspired action — from a grounded, trusting place.
→ Nervous system peace.
→ Learning how to release… without abandoning your dreams.
💫 Do you want to truly integrate this?
To stop hoping for love or abundance…
And start naturally attracting it, just by being who you really are?
That’s exactly what we do in Twin Soul School.
Because attracting your twin soul isn’t about chasing them.
It’s a return — to you.
→ In Part 1, I teach you how to practically prepare and Unite with your twin soul.
→ In Part 2, we go deeper: more trust and becoming magnetic to unconditional love.
No pushing.
No pulling.
No losing yourself.
I won’t teach you how to “manifest” your twin flame from fear.
I’ll teach you how to become the frequency they (and abundance) naturally come home to.
Feel like this is for you?
Then you are so welcome in Twin Soul School.
Click here to discover everything (or share this link with someone who needs it)
💌 Got questions or doubts? Email us — we’re here, and we’ll feel into it with you.
Click here to discover the twin soul starter toolkit. FREE!
You don’t have to do this alone.
But it does start with you.
With love,
Lorraine Vesterink
