When you stop longing, you step out of waiting — because there’s nothing left to wait for.”
But how to Stop Longing and Finally Align with What You Desire
Longing is one of the most persistent forms of resistance.
It feels like desire… but it’s not!
It’s the energy of not having —
and that energy is what actually pushes your dreams away.
Whether you’re longing for a loving relationship, a twin soul union, more money, better health, or a fulfilling career, living your soul mission… the truth is:
The more you LONG for something, the LONGer it takes to arrive.
It might sound backwards.
But once you understand how energy really works, it all begins to make sense.
Why Longing Keeps You Stuck
Longing is the vibration of separation.
When you say,
“I’ll be happy once I have my union…
once I get that job…
once I win the lottery,”
you’re not affirming your desire —
you’re affirming its absence.
Energetically, you’re saying:
“I don’t have it now.”
And the universe responds to that energy —
not your words,
but your frequency.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, ask yourself honestly:
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Would I be happier if I had what I wanted now?
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Would I be disappointed if I never got it?
If the answer is ‘YES’ to either one…
You are still longing!
And longing is just another form of chasing.
What Happens When You Stop Longing
We don’t attract what we want .
We attract what we’re aligned with.
That’s the game-changer!
The moment you stop chasing and shift into alignment, everything begins to move.
Energy flows.
Resistance softens.
Your vibration rises.
And suddenly, you become a match for what you once thought was out of reach.
My Personal Alignment Story
When I got into full alignment,
I attracted my official twin soul union in just one day .
Yes, really – one day.
I even recorded a video about it.
Why? Because alignment is energetic.
Your twin soul — and everything you deeply desire — is already connected to you.
When you shift, they shift.
When you align, life aligns with you.
Introducing the Alignment Module
To help you step into that same energy, I created the Alignment Module .
It’s a deep energetic training, recorded just days after my wedding —
infused with the exact frequency that brought my own union to life.
As part of celebrating 5.5 years in union, I’m offering it now for just €55 .
Inside the module, you’ll learn:
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How to recognize and release the energy of lunging
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Simple techniques to shift into alignment instantly
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Daily practices to match the vibration of what you desire
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How to stop chasing and start receiving
These are the same tools I still use to this day.
Join the 5-Second Alignment Challenge
Want a taste of what alignment feels like?
Inside the Twin Soul Awareness App , I recently shared a free 5-second alignment challenge .
It’s fast, simple, and already helping others shift their energy — in real time.
Life Is Meant To Be Easy
Alignment simplifies everything.
Life was never meant to be a struggle.
If you’re feeling tired, stuck, or like you’re always waiting — it’s not your fault.
It’s just misalignment.
Separation isn’t your true state.
Union is.
And the more you live from that knowing, the faster everything flows.
Bonus: Pre-Wedding Q&A Gift
As a special gift, I hosted a live Marriage Q&A Webinar before my wedding.
It’s available exclusively inside the Twin Soul Awareness App .
You’ll receive:
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Direct answers to your questions
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Live energy from the frequency of union
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Real-time guidance for your own alignment journey
Need My Personal Support?
If you want direct help from me in your union journey, I also offer Guaranteed Guidance .
It’s the most personal way I support individuals in reaching lasting union — no guesswork, no confusion.
Are You Ready to Stop Chasing?
You can keep going.
Or you can shift into alignment — and finally receive what your soul has always known is yours.
One keeps you waiting.
The other brings you into receiving.
So I’ll ask you now:
Are you committed?
If your answer is yes, then come join the Alignment Module .
If you are really committed then I’ll see you in the Guaranteed Guide to Union. Current students can upgrade for a special price to this amazing program. We’ll start soon with the new Soul Vision Session. I’ll guide you guaranteed to your union.
Let’s shift your story from “I wish…” to “I have.”
With so much love,
Lorraine Vesterink