āWhen you stop longing,
you step out of waiting ā
because thereās nothing left to wait for.ā
So how do you stop longing and truly align with what you desire?
Letās begin with a truth bomb:
Longing is not desire.
Longing is resistance disguised as hope.
Itās the vibration of not having.
And thatās exactly what pushes your dreams further away.
You might be longing for your Twin Soul Union,
your dream marriage, a healthy body, abundance, or your soul mission to fully unfold.
But hereās the energetic truth:
The more you long⦠the longer it takes.
And I get it ā itās confusing. Because isnāt longing a sign that you care deeply?
Yes⦠but itās also a sign that youāre not aligned yet.
Why Longing Holds You Back (Even If It Feels Spiritual)
Longing says:
āIāll be happy once I have them.ā
āIāll finally feel complete once I get that ring.ā
āOnce Iām married, once Iām seen, then Iāll feel safe.āBut hereās the energy behind those words:
āI donāt have it now.ā
The universe doesnāt respond to words. It responds to frequency.
So if youāre feeling the ache of absence, thatās the energy youāre sending out. And thatās what you keep attracting.
And yes ā even if youāre manifesting your Twin Flame wedding, this still applies.
Ā The Truth About Twin Soul Marriage
People think Twin Soul love is a fairytale.
But in the beginning? It can feel like anything but.
For me, it felt more like a horror movie than a love story.
I didnāt even realize I was dealing with my Twin Flame for the first three years.
When I finally knew⦠he started running. And I didnāt know how to handle the pain. I just wanted it to stop.
I was already a coach and a teacher. But this ā this journey ā brought me to my knees.
And yet, it also raised me higher than I had ever gone.
Watch my full story here ā real, and filled with divine lessons:
Ā Twin Soul Union Is Not A Girlfriend/Boyfriend vibe
Your Twin Soul is not your āpartner.ā
They are your husband.
They are your wife.
Even before the wedding, I called him my husband.
He called me his wife.
Because this connection isnāt about titles. Itās about truth.
You donāt date your Twin Flame.
You recognize them.
You mirror them.
You grow with them ā or you run from yourself.
Ā How I Stopped Longing and Aligned (In One Day)
When I stopped chasing and started aligning ā my Union arrived in one day.
I know, it sounds unreal.
But alignment is an energy state, not a timeline.
When you stop saying āone dayā and begin living as if itās already yours, thatās when everything changes.
Ā Daily Affirmations That Helped Me Align
Every day, I say with my whole heart:
𦩠I love life, and life loves me.
𦩠I love beauty, and beauty loves me.
𦩠I love health, and health loves me.
𦩠I love love, and love loves me.
𦩠I love my Twin Soul, and my Twin Soul loves me.
Say them out loud.
Move your hands.
Say them until they feel like truth.
Say them until your energy matches your destiny.
Because itās not just about affirming what you want.
Itās about becoming the version of you who already has it.
Ā Want Help Aligning? Join the Alignment Module
To help you shift into this same frequency, I created the Alignment Module.
Itās a deep energetic training ā infused with the exact vibration that brought my own Twin Soul wedding to life.
šļø Youāll learn:
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How to shift out of longing instantly
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Daily practices to embody your desire
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How to stop chasing and start receiving
š To celebrate our marriage and 5.5 years of union, you can access it now for just ⬠55.
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Ā Bonus: Pre Marriage Webinar
Watch the bonus Pre-Marriage Webinar inside the Twin Soul Awareness App.
One breath. One shift. And youāre already on your way.
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Ā Ready to Get Married to Your Twin Soul?
Then letās get real:
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This journey isnāt for the faint of heart.
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Itās for those who are ready to be mirrored.
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Itās for those who are ready to grow.
And if you want personal help ā I now offer Guaranteed Guidance.
Yes, guaranteed. I will not stop until you are in union.
You donāt have to walk this path alone anymore.
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Ā Letās Shift Together
Stop waiting.
Stop longing.
Start aligning.
Say it with me:
I love union. And union loves me.
I love truth. And truth loves me.
I love myself. And I love my Twin Soul. And they love me too.
Your path is clearing.
Your time is now.
With so much love,
Lorraine Vesterink