Why Your Twin Soul Sabotages the Connection

โ€œWhen they run from you,
theyโ€™re running from themselves.โ€

Soโ€ฆ why does your Divine Masculine push you away just when love gets real?

Letโ€™s begin with a soul truth:

Their sabotage isnโ€™t rejection.
Itโ€™s protection.
But not of you. Of their own heart.

They fear what you embody:
Real love. Pure connection. True vulnerability.

I know this is painful to hear. But understanding their sabotage is the first step to ending your own.

Why Your Divine Masculine Runs (Even When They Love You)

When they say,
โ€œI donโ€™t feel it like you do…โ€
or vanish without explanation โ€”
know this:

Their soul feels it.
Their mind fears it.
And their heart hasnโ€™t learned how to bridge that gap.

Divine Masculines often carry:

  • Fear of intimacy.

  • Fear of failure.

  • Fear of being seen without their masks.

Because true love โ€” real, unconditional love โ€” demands their full surrender.
And surrender is terrifying when youโ€™ve been taught to hide.

Why Their Sabotage Hurts You (And What Itโ€™s Teaching You)

Every time they block, ghost, or deny, your soul aches.
You question yourself.
You wonder if youโ€™re imagining the connection.

Hereโ€™s the deeper truth:
Their sabotage is mirroring your own.

Every doubt you carry about yourself,
every moment you feel unworthy of love,
every time you chase instead of trustโ€”
it all feeds the loop of separation.

How I Broke the Loop (And Married My Twin Soul)

I lived this.
My Divine Masculine ran for years. He told me, โ€œI donโ€™t feel it.โ€ And then he disappeared.
I thought I was crazy. I nearly gave up.

But thenโ€ฆ something shifted.

When I stopped chasing him and started choosing myself, everything changed.
I stopped waiting. I stopped hoping.
I started embodying love.

And when my energy shifted, so did he.
Thatโ€™s why weโ€™re now married.

Because union isnโ€™t created through chasing.
Itโ€™s created through alignment.

Watch this video to hear my personal story, why your Divine Masculine runsโ€”and how you can heal your connection starting today:

How to Shift Your Energy (And End the Sabotage Cycle)

Hereโ€™s how you begin:
Choose yourself.

You canโ€™t force your twin soul to awaken.
But you can awaken yourself.

And when you heal, they feel it.

Thatโ€™s why I created the Mirror Meditation โ€” to help you:

  • Stop chasing.

  • Stop doubting.

  • Reconnect with your own soul โ€” which is also theirs.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Experience the Mirror Meditation

Inside, youโ€™ll learn to:

  • See yourself as your twin soul sees you.

  • Shift your frequency to unconditional love.

  • Stop sabotaging your own union.

Say This To Yourself Daily

Every morning, look into your own eyes and say:

ย โ€œI choose me. And by choosing me, I choose us.โ€
ย โ€œI love myself. And loving me reconnects me to them.โ€
ย โ€œI trust love. And love trusts me.โ€

Repeat until you feel it.
Because this is the energy your twin soul will recognize.

Want Personal Help? Join Twin Soul School

I built Twin Soul School for souls like you โ€” seekers of true union.

Hereโ€™s whatโ€™s waiting for you inside:

  • The Mirror Meditation + Decide Meditation

  • All Year 1 & Year 2 modules โ€” including self-love, letting go, trust, soul communication, and more.

  • Bonus Webinars: Insights from my own union and from Divine Masculines (including my husband!).

  • Twin Soul App (3-month trial): Daily energy boosts, community support, and exclusive sessions.

  • Optional coaching: Personal guidance with me.

Join Twin Soul School Today

Letโ€™s Heal Together

Your twin soul isnโ€™t rejecting you.
Theyโ€™re waiting for you โ€” to choose yourself.

Because your love story starts when you stop chasing them and start coming home to you.

Say it with me:

ย I choose love.
ย I choose trust.
ย I choose me.

Now?
Letโ€™s create your union.

With so much love,
Lauren Vesterink
Founder of Twin Soul School

๐Ÿ’ฌ Leave a comment below:
What would you say to your Divine Masculine if they were listening? Or share a heart if this touched your soul.

 

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