By Lorraine Vesterink<\/em><\/p>\r\nAfter 5 years I united with my twin soul.<\/h2>\r\n
Now years later it seems very easy, but it has not always been that an easy ride for me. In the end it was really about making the right choice.<\/p>\r\n
But how do you consciously choose for this? It\u2019s up to you if it will work out, not up to the other person. Often divine feminines say they choose for the connection, but the divine masculine doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n
As a divine feminine we often see the divine masculine as the leader. Indeed, in the 3D this is the case, the DM is active, chooses, does, lives and enjoys his or her life. The divine masculine is much more present in the 3D.<\/p>\r\n
The divine feminine on the other side is much more aware and often developing in spiritual growth, watching video\u2019s like this one about twin souls, they are waiting, hoping and searching for the secret how to unite. You don’t have to look further, because I will give you the clue and you hold the key to your union.<\/p>\r\n
If you are a DF who enjoy less in the present time, because you miss your DM…<\/h2>\r\n
If you are still searching, waiting and wanting very badly which makes you out of control in the situation. You are placing the control outside of yourself.<\/p>\r\n
Let me inspire you it\u2019s not up to your twin soul, it’s really up to you. If you understand that you are the leader of your union, than all the power lies in you. Now you control to go for the most beautiful thing in life. Union with your true twin soul.<\/p>\r\n
You have the choice to create a relationship with your twin soul, a soul mate or someone else. You are allowed to choose the best for you and again the control is in your hands completely.<\/p>\r\n
So let me give you the secret tips to unite:<\/h2>\r\n1) You as the DF choose on an energetic level, you are the energetic leader of your union.<\/h3>\r\n
This means in real life you do not need to call, text or stand in front of the door of your twin soul to show you are so in love with him or her. Don’t do that!<\/p>\r\n
2) On the energetic level you get into alignment with the choice for union with your divine masculine and going for it 100%.<\/h3>\r\n
So, if you are really committed to this, you can\u2019t date others anymore, It\u2019s up to you, but you don\u2019t really go for your divine masculine if you are dating other people. It\u2019s not really useful to think you will stop dating ones the DM is coming to you. In this case you\u2019re actually using another soul like a toy. Of course it’s your decision.<\/p>\r\n
If you really want to build a future with that person? You can absolutely choose for someone other than your twin flame. If you only choose this other person for \u2018the time being\u2019, your twin flame will reflect this back to you by doing the same. This will keep you guys in separation or the loop of running and chasing. Somebody has to make the decision and it\u2019s up to the DF to do so.<\/p>\r\n
A customer of mine never met her twin soul. She really wanted the twin soul journey. I asked her if she was sure (getting herself into this). Next thing I helped her choosing for her twin soul and the day after this she met her twin soul. They aren\u2019t together yet after two years and she hasn\u2019t found the courage to choose for the other half.<\/p>\r\n
During a conversation with her about daring to choose and forgive her twin soul, the divine masculine sent a message to her. The DM asked her how she was doing. You can even set a date for it. However, in my experience if you set a date and your request doesn\u2019t happen at that particularly time, I notice the DF\u2019s are going into doubt and run away. They are having thoughts like: Should I even do this? Is it even my twin soul?<\/p>\r\n
You are actually making an order for the universe, but meanwhile cancelling it (energetically) by saying: \u201cNever mind.\u201d You can compare it to pass down the wrong address, or choosing a soul mate or ordering nothing at all. How do you want to receive an order then?<\/p>\r\n
If you don\u2019t receive something on the day you\u2019ve ordered it to the universe, assume it will arrive 100% guaranteed. This way you\u2019re in a relaxed mood and you can think: Well it will arrive tomorrow then.<\/p>\r\n
Often DF\u2019s go and look for answers via mediums.<\/p>\r\n
Some mediums are right, but there are also people saying things like: \u201cYou will reunite with your twin soul in 10 or 30 years. It will happen eventually sometime, but not in the near future.\u201d Most mediums in my case were wrong. My clients often go to mediums who are telling them all kinds of things. Nine times they mention good stuff and if they say something negative once, for example: \u201cIt\u2019s not there for you\u201d, you are giving your control and power to that other person.<\/p>\r\n
Statements like: \u201cIf it\u2019s meant to be, it\u2019s meant to be\u201d are floated richly. Let me have the outlook (just like Abraham Hicks): \u201cIt\u2019s meant to be, if you want it to be.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\r\nDo you think the divine needs a year or even 10 years to unite you and your twin flame? The divine can do anything, in the here and now, in this time, the union with your twin soul is ready. The only thing is you DF aren\u2019t choosing it yet. It doesn\u2019t matter to the divine if you will come together in this life or in the next one (if you believe in having multiple lives). You have the divine in you!<\/p>\r\n
You can let go of the when and the how, but don\u2019t let go of your wish. Your surroundings will mention often: \u201cYou have to let it go\u201d. Sometimes you can make your union something that\u2019s so big, you can only see happiness in union. But you can also go in the energy of being happy already no matter if there\u2019s a person in your life or just being happy on your own. This way you choose from a place of freedom and this makes it a non-suffocating situation for the DM.<\/p>\r\n
Believe it\u2019s a 100% guarantee and it will happen.<\/p>\r\n
You can relax now and enjoy yourself, no matter the when of your union in 3D.<\/p>\r\n
The essential oil from Infinirgy which can provide support with this topic is the Memory oil<\/strong>. It helps you to remind who you actually are and focus on the answers from above. This way you are going out of the state being in doubt into actually choosing your twin soul.<\/p>\r\nLove yourself enough and don\u2019t leave your power and control about your life up to other people.<\/p>\r\n
Send you love & light,<\/strong>
Lorraine Vesterink<\/strong><\/p>\r\nWatch on YouTube<\/a><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"How Can You Get in Union With Your Twin Soul? By Lorraine Vesterink After 5 years I united with my twin soul. Now years later it seems very easy, but it has not always been that an easy ride for me. In the end it was really about making the right choice. But how do […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-geen-onderdeel-van-een-categorie"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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